Admit it to yourself that to not judging people is so hard to do. I mean, how you put yourself at when you’re listening to your friends’ story? Have you been a good listener? Well. even to listen only is a hard job, isn’t it? Most people think what they see with bare eyes. If they see something which is bad —they thought— then it’s going to be bad for them, they will mark it with a label, such as a bad influence, for example.
Me, myself still can’t be a good listener too, like what i said before that it’s hard not to judge people, not to give them labels. I am thinking that people who choose the wrong path isn’t always wrong or bad. I mean, it’s a brave thing to do even it’s wrong (nah, how could you say it was wrong, bot? you judging, right now?) ok, at least better than doing nothing to reach what they need. They are brave, yes, brave that finally they dare to choose what they want to do. There’s always a risk in every step we take, right or wrong. It just depends on how you take it, whether you sink or swim. Life is full of choices, ya know?
Life is not for being predicted, like if i choose these way what’s going to happen? if i choose those way what the risks i should pay? Live is to be lived not to be thought. Let’s try together not to give people a label, let’s try to listen them without try to give a cut on their unfinished story, because the more you interrupt the more you will misunderstand. Sometimes, people just want to be listened. There’s no one who will judge them, because no matter how good you give a solution, you will never understand the situation.